What do you mean?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Need some advice with this
- Thread starter captain55
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There are actually plenty of decent single mums who aren't wanting to fvck their ex in the next 5 minutes. However ibgenerally do find them waste of time because they tend to be too close to the kid and sooner or later they want you to take on the provider role. It always seems to end up with you paying for another man's kid. I assume they are getting the child support and just lying to you about it. Although that is not always the case if the dad is in another country
speed dawg
Master Don Juan
You didn't say any of that earlier. From your original post it seemed like she was very neutral regarding you. Even still, sending you pics without actually being with you screams of an attention wh*re. I'd be willing to bet she's not nearly as busy as she tells you she is.
You want to give her the ultimate test? Tell her to come over to your place this Friday with some wine, and say you are cooking dinner. If she comes, she wants to f*ck.
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Ever read "the game." By Neil Strauss???
Tidbits of game are there. Its changed since but, the point is running every prospect, every lead through your funnel.
No matter how weak the #, always swing.
Balls deep or next.
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You can't fvck a girl when her dad has a chain on her vagina. If she's interested, she'll break the chain and put her school books away.
Don't waste your time and move on.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Looking for an original thought from you. Still looking.