Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Need some advice, quick! mad quick!

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Blue Hef said:
^true...I actually stole the pizza from the warmer tho (i didn't pay for that sh*t)...and i don't really care about the pizza hut brand lmao...now i know next time though
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Seriously? You put your job in jeopardy for a chick you know nothing about and who is clearly only using you for a free meal?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr.SomeoneElse said:
To me that just sounds cheap. If I heard a guy say that I would instantly assume he's afraid to break any rules (not fun) and 'get you a deal in exchange for a coffee date' A) makes you sound cheap. B) again, like I stated above, why does you giving her a favor end in you doing her another favor?

WHY ARE YOU GUYS ACCEPTING DATES WITH YOU AS CURRENCY OR FAVORS??
YOU'RE doing her a favor by taking her out. You don't "get" to go on a date with her, she "GETS" to go on a date with you. Get it?
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I don't think it's cheap at all. She is the one who initially asked for something, so you have to ask for something in return. If she says no to the date then you know she tried to take advantage, if she says yes you got the date.
 
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Thanks to everyone for your input...To be honest, this was my first attempt at actually approaching a chick "spitting game"...Don't get it twisted AT ALL tho, I've been getting top of the line chicks since 7th grade (not to sound conceited or nothing)...But honestly, I've gotten my chicks different ways. I was always looked at as the "cool guy" in school (i was really just kinda shy), but chicks would come up to ME instead of me going up to them...or I'd get their numbers from someone else and call them out the blue...and the rest I've pulled from myspace, facebook etc (i know, ,pretty lame, but the sh*t worked...and they were ALL at least 8/10)...but now that I'm older I know it's time for me to start to go after what I want. so I'm working on my approaches n' all that...I'm actually in a relationship right now...that's one of the reasons i don't feel too bad about this rejection. I know it was kinda wrong anyways because I have a girl, but I also feel accomplished just for trying.
 
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