"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Need some advice, quick! mad quick!

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Blue Hef said:
^true...I actually stole the pizza from the warmer tho (i didn't pay for that sh*t)...and i don't really care about the pizza hut brand lmao...now i know next time though
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Seriously? You put your job in jeopardy for a chick you know nothing about and who is clearly only using you for a free meal?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mr.SomeoneElse said:
To me that just sounds cheap. If I heard a guy say that I would instantly assume he's afraid to break any rules (not fun) and 'get you a deal in exchange for a coffee date' A) makes you sound cheap. B) again, like I stated above, why does you giving her a favor end in you doing her another favor?

WHY ARE YOU GUYS ACCEPTING DATES WITH YOU AS CURRENCY OR FAVORS??
YOU'RE doing her a favor by taking her out. You don't "get" to go on a date with her, she "GETS" to go on a date with you. Get it?
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I don't think it's cheap at all. She is the one who initially asked for something, so you have to ask for something in return. If she says no to the date then you know she tried to take advantage, if she says yes you got the date.
 
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Thanks to everyone for your input...To be honest, this was my first attempt at actually approaching a chick "spitting game"...Don't get it twisted AT ALL tho, I've been getting top of the line chicks since 7th grade (not to sound conceited or nothing)...But honestly, I've gotten my chicks different ways. I was always looked at as the "cool guy" in school (i was really just kinda shy), but chicks would come up to ME instead of me going up to them...or I'd get their numbers from someone else and call them out the blue...and the rest I've pulled from myspace, facebook etc (i know, ,pretty lame, but the sh*t worked...and they were ALL at least 8/10)...but now that I'm older I know it's time for me to start to go after what I want. so I'm working on my approaches n' all that...I'm actually in a relationship right now...that's one of the reasons i don't feel too bad about this rejection. I know it was kinda wrong anyways because I have a girl, but I also feel accomplished just for trying.
 
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