"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need some advice, quick! mad quick!

EastWind

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Blue Hef said:
^true...I actually stole the pizza from the warmer tho (i didn't pay for that sh*t)...and i don't really care about the pizza hut brand lmao...now i know next time though
Seriously? You put your job in jeopardy for a chick you know nothing about and who is clearly only using you for a free meal?
 

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Mr.SomeoneElse said:
To me that just sounds cheap. If I heard a guy say that I would instantly assume he's afraid to break any rules (not fun) and 'get you a deal in exchange for a coffee date' A) makes you sound cheap. B) again, like I stated above, why does you giving her a favor end in you doing her another favor?

WHY ARE YOU GUYS ACCEPTING DATES WITH YOU AS CURRENCY OR FAVORS??

YOU'RE doing her a favor by taking her out. You don't "get" to go on a date with her, she "GETS" to go on a date with you. Get it?
I don't think it's cheap at all. She is the one who initially asked for something, so you have to ask for something in return. If she says no to the date then you know she tried to take advantage, if she says yes you got the date.
 

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Thanks to everyone for your input...To be honest, this was my first attempt at actually approaching a chick "spitting game"...Don't get it twisted AT ALL tho, I've been getting top of the line chicks since 7th grade (not to sound conceited or nothing)...But honestly, I've gotten my chicks different ways. I was always looked at as the "cool guy" in school (i was really just kinda shy), but chicks would come up to ME instead of me going up to them...or I'd get their numbers from someone else and call them out the blue...and the rest I've pulled from myspace, facebook etc (i know, ,pretty lame, but the sh*t worked...and they were ALL at least 8/10)...but now that I'm older I know it's time for me to start to go after what I want. so I'm working on my approaches n' all that...I'm actually in a relationship right now...that's one of the reasons i don't feel too bad about this rejection. I know it was kinda wrong anyways because I have a girl, but I also feel accomplished just for trying.
 
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