"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Need some advice, quick! mad quick!

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Blue Hef said:
^true...I actually stole the pizza from the warmer tho (i didn't pay for that sh*t)...and i don't really care about the pizza hut brand lmao...now i know next time though
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Seriously? You put your job in jeopardy for a chick you know nothing about and who is clearly only using you for a free meal?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mr.SomeoneElse said:
To me that just sounds cheap. If I heard a guy say that I would instantly assume he's afraid to break any rules (not fun) and 'get you a deal in exchange for a coffee date' A) makes you sound cheap. B) again, like I stated above, why does you giving her a favor end in you doing her another favor?

WHY ARE YOU GUYS ACCEPTING DATES WITH YOU AS CURRENCY OR FAVORS??
YOU'RE doing her a favor by taking her out. You don't "get" to go on a date with her, she "GETS" to go on a date with you. Get it?
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I don't think it's cheap at all. She is the one who initially asked for something, so you have to ask for something in return. If she says no to the date then you know she tried to take advantage, if she says yes you got the date.
 
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Thanks to everyone for your input...To be honest, this was my first attempt at actually approaching a chick "spitting game"...Don't get it twisted AT ALL tho, I've been getting top of the line chicks since 7th grade (not to sound conceited or nothing)...But honestly, I've gotten my chicks different ways. I was always looked at as the "cool guy" in school (i was really just kinda shy), but chicks would come up to ME instead of me going up to them...or I'd get their numbers from someone else and call them out the blue...and the rest I've pulled from myspace, facebook etc (i know, ,pretty lame, but the sh*t worked...and they were ALL at least 8/10)...but now that I'm older I know it's time for me to start to go after what I want. so I'm working on my approaches n' all that...I'm actually in a relationship right now...that's one of the reasons i don't feel too bad about this rejection. I know it was kinda wrong anyways because I have a girl, but I also feel accomplished just for trying.
 
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