"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I saw the ad and I reckon I'm a good candidate. Just ignore all of the stuff I've always done.

I am kind of curious about the vetting process, though. And what incentives are there? Why do you assh0les makes this place respectable?

Hats off to y'all, by the way.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
I saw the ad and I reckon I'm a good candidate. Just ignore all of the stuff I've always done.

I am kind of curious about the vetting process, though. And what incentives are there? Why do you assh0les makes this place respectable?

Hats off to y'all, by the way.
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They do an admirable job. Seriously.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
I saw the ad and I reckon I'm a good candidate. Just ignore all of the stuff I've always done.

I am kind of curious about the vetting process, though. And what incentives are there? Why do you assh0les makes this place respectable?

Hats off to y'all, by the way.
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they mention the word 'volunteer' in the ad
Not sure if that negates 'incentives' you're curious about.
Last sentence in ad reads "Thanks in advance to all who volunteer"
If I had a year membership in and there was regular deposits to my paypal account I would consider it;)
 
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Lynx nkaf said:
they mention the word 'volunteer' in the ad
Not sure if that negates 'incentives' you're curious about.
Last sentence in ad reads "Thanks in advance to all who volunteer"
If I had a year membership in and there was regular deposits to my paypal account I would consider it;)
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You would be the first diversity hire!
 
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aha ha, oh yeah. That's crazy.

Pandemic human nature.

There's decisions being made that would never occur in pre-pandemic times.
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Don't get your hopes up, miss. I would vote against you lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TyTe`EyEz said:
Don't get your hopes up, miss. I would vote against you lol
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so would I.....I'm probably not even at 10%improvement at becoming more feminine and eliminating my red flags and improving my personality...never mind the fact that I decided NOT to date/pursue puzzy after all....Lmao.
I'm just so grateful there's some masculine men left in the world who get it.

I experience a little relief each time I read here on sosuave.
 
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I hope those who are interested apply. It’s a fun gig and you can manage your own time you spend on it with your other happenings in life. Overall we have a good community of regulars on here so it’s not as difficult as you may think. Worst part is having to permanently ban someone who has been here for a long time after giving them chance after chance after chance. But when we do that it’s a team decision we make together. We take banning people very seriously believe it or not.
 
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logicallefty said:
I hope those who are interested apply. It’s a fun gig and you can manage your own time you spend on it with your other happenings in life. Overall we have a good community of regulars on here so it’s not as difficult as you may think. Worst part is having to permanently ban someone who has been here for a long time after giving them chance after chance after chance. But when we do that it’s a team decision we make together. We take banning people very seriously believe it or not.
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I don't envy you. We've lost some good ones over the years
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Lynx nkaf said:
so would I.....I'm probably not even at 10%improvement at becoming more feminine and eliminating my red flags and improving my personality...never mind the fact that I decided NOT to date/pursue puzzy after all....Lmao.
I'm just so grateful there's some masculine men left in the world who get it.

I experience a little relief each time I read here on sosuave.
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Atta girl
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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