I have a really big issue. I CANT GET LAID!! God its been years. And its not getting any better. Any girl I'm with sooner or later sees how badly I'm craving for sex. Sometimes it seems like an impossible goal in my life. I see all these HB around me and feel powerless to do anything about it. So wtf is going on? I've been shaping my life for years and now I actually have an identity and stable in most areas in my life. Girls do look at me differently and I sense the attraction. BUT NO LAYS... People say just fck a few fat chicks, but I really dont want to get in bed with a beast. So whats going on? Am I putting too much value on sex or is a lack of confidence is whats holding me back? Any insights help, thanks guys!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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- Thread starter Wyga
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yo dood
From the tone of your post, it does seem that you might be getting a bit desperate! And if women smell desperation on you, they'll run for the hills or worse, take advantage of you and your time. I know you want sex (everyone does, heh), but I think the key here is to enjoy every part of the interaction - the sex will come as long as you continue to escalate and are detached from the result of the interaction (a trait I'm still trying to develop in myself).
Others will probably chime in to give more tips, but here's a video I watched just earlier today from rsdjulien that might be of interest to you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGREQFiw0NU
From the tone of your post, it does seem that you might be getting a bit desperate! And if women smell desperation on you, they'll run for the hills or worse, take advantage of you and your time. I know you want sex (everyone does, heh), but I think the key here is to enjoy every part of the interaction - the sex will come as long as you continue to escalate and are detached from the result of the interaction (a trait I'm still trying to develop in myself).
Others will probably chime in to give more tips, but here's a video I watched just earlier today from rsdjulien that might be of interest to you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGREQFiw0NU
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
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