I have a really big issue. I CANT GET LAID!! God its been years. And its not getting any better. Any girl I'm with sooner or later sees how badly I'm craving for sex. Sometimes it seems like an impossible goal in my life. I see all these HB around me and feel powerless to do anything about it. So wtf is going on? I've been shaping my life for years and now I actually have an identity and stable in most areas in my life. Girls do look at me differently and I sense the attraction. BUT NO LAYS... People say just fck a few fat chicks, but I really dont want to get in bed with a beast. So whats going on? Am I putting too much value on sex or is a lack of confidence is whats holding me back? Any insights help, thanks guys!
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
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Need help!
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yo dood
From the tone of your post, it does seem that you might be getting a bit desperate! And if women smell desperation on you, they'll run for the hills or worse, take advantage of you and your time. I know you want sex (everyone does, heh), but I think the key here is to enjoy every part of the interaction - the sex will come as long as you continue to escalate and are detached from the result of the interaction (a trait I'm still trying to develop in myself).
Others will probably chime in to give more tips, but here's a video I watched just earlier today from rsdjulien that might be of interest to you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGREQFiw0NU
From the tone of your post, it does seem that you might be getting a bit desperate! And if women smell desperation on you, they'll run for the hills or worse, take advantage of you and your time. I know you want sex (everyone does, heh), but I think the key here is to enjoy every part of the interaction - the sex will come as long as you continue to escalate and are detached from the result of the interaction (a trait I'm still trying to develop in myself).
Others will probably chime in to give more tips, but here's a video I watched just earlier today from rsdjulien that might be of interest to you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGREQFiw0NU
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
It worked = you got laid?
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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
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