I have a really big issue. I CANT GET LAID!! God its been years. And its not getting any better. Any girl I'm with sooner or later sees how badly I'm craving for sex. Sometimes it seems like an impossible goal in my life. I see all these HB around me and feel powerless to do anything about it. So wtf is going on? I've been shaping my life for years and now I actually have an identity and stable in most areas in my life. Girls do look at me differently and I sense the attraction. BUT NO LAYS... People say just fck a few fat chicks, but I really dont want to get in bed with a beast. So whats going on? Am I putting too much value on sex or is a lack of confidence is whats holding me back? Any insights help, thanks guys!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Need help!
- Thread starter Wyga
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yo dood
From the tone of your post, it does seem that you might be getting a bit desperate! And if women smell desperation on you, they'll run for the hills or worse, take advantage of you and your time. I know you want sex (everyone does, heh), but I think the key here is to enjoy every part of the interaction - the sex will come as long as you continue to escalate and are detached from the result of the interaction (a trait I'm still trying to develop in myself).
Others will probably chime in to give more tips, but here's a video I watched just earlier today from rsdjulien that might be of interest to you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGREQFiw0NU
From the tone of your post, it does seem that you might be getting a bit desperate! And if women smell desperation on you, they'll run for the hills or worse, take advantage of you and your time. I know you want sex (everyone does, heh), but I think the key here is to enjoy every part of the interaction - the sex will come as long as you continue to escalate and are detached from the result of the interaction (a trait I'm still trying to develop in myself).
Others will probably chime in to give more tips, but here's a video I watched just earlier today from rsdjulien that might be of interest to you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wGREQFiw0NU
Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
It worked = you got laid?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.