"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need help with this really "deep" girl

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Hello all

I need some of your valuable knowledge!

I've been dating this girl, and it has been great, but I'm generally a quiet kinda guy and and have realized that this girl is really emotionally deep and craves those deep and meaningful conversations. The question I have is how I can initiate more of these "deep" conversations about life, love, whateva. I'm finding this really difficult because I've met no-one like her, so this is fairly foreign to me. She really wants to get to know me deeply and I know I have the potential to be really emotionally deep, but I don't know how to unlock it within myself.
Has anybody overcome something like this before? Or does anyone have any ideas?

Thanks so much

Regards,
Jim
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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man she scares me...

careful that she might get too clingy then she might become the i'll commit sucide if you leave me type of girl.. just watch yourself
 
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oh nah it isn't like that.
I feel she might leave me if I don't become more emotionally deep...
 
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well when u say deep.. explain yourself in your own words when u discribe deep becuase its not clear on what ur tryin to say... by deep u mean.. more of ur personal? or deep as in more emotional.. like bf gf thing?
 
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Sorry, I guess its kinda hard to explain!

I think I mean like deep conversations about personal and emotional like a bf gf thing.
Again, I'm sorry if that makes no sense... i'll be happy to clarify anything!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jimmeh said:
Sorry, I guess its kinda hard to explain!

I think I mean like deep conversations about personal and emotional like a bf gf thing.
Again, I'm sorry if that makes no sense... i'll be happy to clarify anything!
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maybe she wants u to make the move.. shes interested in you

have u tried to move in? kiss? even f close?
girls dont talk mushy things for no reason u know
 
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oh don't worry we have been intimate! we are together officially...
its just a matter of maintaining the relationship by providing what she needs, which is stimulating conversation.
 
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What is the meaning of life?
What happens when we die?
If God exists, why does he let bad things happen to good people?
Is a person's personality defined most by their genes (nature) or their environment (nurture)?
Do we have souls?
If God knows everything, can he enjoy a whodunnit?
If God can't enjoy a whodunnit, is he all powerful?
Does George Bush want a Holy War?
Is there life in outer space?
Is there life in Belgium?
If a tree falls in the forest and no ones there to hear it, does it make a sound?
Are there, as quantum physics suggests, alternate universes where the Nazis won the war and Paris Hilton is president?
etc
 
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Find me a gal like that. Not enough of 'em around.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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i agree with you guys, they are definitely rare...
i feel terribly lucky.
i just hope i can keep her!
 
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Jimmeh said:
cant say i do
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Ok. Try the link at the bottom of my signature. And listen to a few of the shows in the "recordings" section.

Give it a shot. I reccomend listening to at least 3 or 4 of his shows before judging the guy.
 
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