“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Need help with this really "deep" girl

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Hello all

I need some of your valuable knowledge!

I've been dating this girl, and it has been great, but I'm generally a quiet kinda guy and and have realized that this girl is really emotionally deep and craves those deep and meaningful conversations. The question I have is how I can initiate more of these "deep" conversations about life, love, whateva. I'm finding this really difficult because I've met no-one like her, so this is fairly foreign to me. She really wants to get to know me deeply and I know I have the potential to be really emotionally deep, but I don't know how to unlock it within myself.
Has anybody overcome something like this before? Or does anyone have any ideas?

Thanks so much

Regards,
Jim
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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man she scares me...

careful that she might get too clingy then she might become the i'll commit sucide if you leave me type of girl.. just watch yourself
 
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oh nah it isn't like that.
I feel she might leave me if I don't become more emotionally deep...
 
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well when u say deep.. explain yourself in your own words when u discribe deep becuase its not clear on what ur tryin to say... by deep u mean.. more of ur personal? or deep as in more emotional.. like bf gf thing?
 
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Sorry, I guess its kinda hard to explain!

I think I mean like deep conversations about personal and emotional like a bf gf thing.
Again, I'm sorry if that makes no sense... i'll be happy to clarify anything!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jimmeh said:
Sorry, I guess its kinda hard to explain!

I think I mean like deep conversations about personal and emotional like a bf gf thing.
Again, I'm sorry if that makes no sense... i'll be happy to clarify anything!
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maybe she wants u to make the move.. shes interested in you

have u tried to move in? kiss? even f close?
girls dont talk mushy things for no reason u know
 
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oh don't worry we have been intimate! we are together officially...
its just a matter of maintaining the relationship by providing what she needs, which is stimulating conversation.
 
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What is the meaning of life?
What happens when we die?
If God exists, why does he let bad things happen to good people?
Is a person's personality defined most by their genes (nature) or their environment (nurture)?
Do we have souls?
If God knows everything, can he enjoy a whodunnit?
If God can't enjoy a whodunnit, is he all powerful?
Does George Bush want a Holy War?
Is there life in outer space?
Is there life in Belgium?
If a tree falls in the forest and no ones there to hear it, does it make a sound?
Are there, as quantum physics suggests, alternate universes where the Nazis won the war and Paris Hilton is president?
etc
 
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Find me a gal like that. Not enough of 'em around.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i agree with you guys, they are definitely rare...
i feel terribly lucky.
i just hope i can keep her!
 
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Jimmeh said:
cant say i do
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Ok. Try the link at the bottom of my signature. And listen to a few of the shows in the "recordings" section.

Give it a shot. I reccomend listening to at least 3 or 4 of his shows before judging the guy.
 
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