Need help with this really "deep" girl

[Jimmeh]

Hello all

I need some of your valuable knowledge!

I've been dating this girl, and it has been great, but I'm generally a quiet kinda guy and and have realized that this girl is really emotionally deep and craves those deep and meaningful conversations. The question I have is how I can initiate more of these "deep" conversations about life, love, whateva. I'm finding this really difficult because I've met no-one like her, so this is fairly foreign to me. She really wants to get to know me deeply and I know I have the potential to be really emotionally deep, but I don't know how to unlock it within myself.
Has anybody overcome something like this before? Or does anyone have any ideas?

Thanks so much

Regards,
Jim

 

[sexy_kuta]

man she scares me...

careful that she might get too clingy then she might become the i'll commit sucide if you leave me type of girl.. just watch yourself

 

[Jimmeh]

oh nah it isn't like that.
I feel she might leave me if I don't become more emotionally deep...

 

[sexy_kuta]

well when u say deep.. explain yourself in your own words when u discribe deep becuase its not clear on what ur tryin to say... by deep u mean.. more of ur personal? or deep as in more emotional.. like bf gf thing?

 

[Jimmeh]

Sorry, I guess its kinda hard to explain!

I think I mean like deep conversations about personal and emotional like a bf gf thing.
Again, I'm sorry if that makes no sense... i'll be happy to clarify anything!

 

[sexy_kuta]

Sorry, I guess its kinda hard to explain!

I think I mean like deep conversations about personal and emotional like a bf gf thing.
Again, I'm sorry if that makes no sense... i'll be happy to clarify anything!

maybe she wants u to make the move.. shes interested in you

have u tried to move in? kiss? even f close?
girls dont talk mushy things for no reason u know

 

[Jimmeh]

oh don't worry we have been intimate! we are together officially...
its just a matter of maintaining the relationship by providing what she needs, which is stimulating conversation.

 

[Nighthawk]

What is the meaning of life?
What happens when we die?
If God exists, why does he let bad things happen to good people?
Is a person's personality defined most by their genes (nature) or their environment (nurture)?
Do we have souls?
If God knows everything, can he enjoy a whodunnit?
If God can't enjoy a whodunnit, is he all powerful?
Does George Bush want a Holy War?
Is there life in outer space?
Is there life in Belgium?
If a tree falls in the forest and no ones there to hear it, does it make a sound?
Are there, as quantum physics suggests, alternate universes where the Nazis won the war and Paris Hilton is president?
etc

 

[Bonhomme]

Find me a gal like that. Not enough of 'em around.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Find me a gal like that. Not enough of 'em around.

I agree.

 

[Jimmeh]

i agree with you guys, they are definitely rare...
i feel terribly lucky.
i just hope i can keep her!

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

Hey man. Do you know why Tom Leikys is?

 

[Jimmeh]

cant say i do

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

cant say i do

Ok. Try the link at the bottom of my signature. And listen to a few of the shows in the "recordings" section.

Give it a shot. I reccomend listening to at least 3 or 4 of his shows before judging the guy.