"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Need help with this chick.

gtownjuan

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There is this dark skinned HB8.5 that lives next door which i get along very well with. I usually tease her alot and she responds by playfully punching me and is generally conformable with me kinoing her and she kinos back even when its just us two talking. She lives with a big family and how my house is located I can't do anything. So how do move things up a notch????
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SilverSonnet

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ARrocket hit the nail on the head here. She's not different from other women 'cos she's your neighbour. She's a woman like any other, so treat her the same. Chat, kino, # or Kiss close (or both ;)) and then date man. Jeez, not hard pal ;)

Good luck with this, and hope you get what you want from the relationship

Ben ;)
 

gtownjuan

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thanks guys but this situation is different.

She lives right behind me so what's the deal with the number i could just get a 101 with her. She's like 5 years older than me so she has experience with older guys but i doubt she knows any dons.

Seriously tho i dont wanna date her i just wanna bang this chick.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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DonGorgon

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gtownjuan said:
thanks guys but this situation is different.

She lives right behind me so what's the deal with the number i could just get a 101 with her. She's like 5 years older than me so she has experience with older guys but i doubt she knows any dons.

Seriously tho i dont wanna date her i just wanna bang this chick.
ooh look your answer

DonGorgon said:
Get to your house when you are home alone ... girls can always find a way to do what they really want to do...
 

gtownjuan

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What would help here to build more attraction or escalate things more? Like i said we connect well but i wanna push the budget her and see what she puts out.
 
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