"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Need help with this chick.

gtownjuan

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There is this dark skinned HB8.5 that lives next door which i get along very well with. I usually tease her alot and she responds by playfully punching me and is generally conformable with me kinoing her and she kinos back even when its just us two talking. She lives with a big family and how my house is located I can't do anything. So how do move things up a notch????
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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SilverSonnet

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ARrocket hit the nail on the head here. She's not different from other women 'cos she's your neighbour. She's a woman like any other, so treat her the same. Chat, kino, # or Kiss close (or both ;)) and then date man. Jeez, not hard pal ;)

Good luck with this, and hope you get what you want from the relationship

Ben ;)
 

gtownjuan

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thanks guys but this situation is different.

She lives right behind me so what's the deal with the number i could just get a 101 with her. She's like 5 years older than me so she has experience with older guys but i doubt she knows any dons.

Seriously tho i dont wanna date her i just wanna bang this chick.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DonGorgon

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gtownjuan said:
thanks guys but this situation is different.

She lives right behind me so what's the deal with the number i could just get a 101 with her. She's like 5 years older than me so she has experience with older guys but i doubt she knows any dons.

Seriously tho i dont wanna date her i just wanna bang this chick.
ooh look your answer

DonGorgon said:
Get to your house when you are home alone ... girls can always find a way to do what they really want to do...
 

gtownjuan

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What would help here to build more attraction or escalate things more? Like i said we connect well but i wanna push the budget her and see what she puts out.
 
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