"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need help with this chick.

gtownjuan

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There is this dark skinned HB8.5 that lives next door which i get along very well with. I usually tease her alot and she responds by playfully punching me and is generally conformable with me kinoing her and she kinos back even when its just us two talking. She lives with a big family and how my house is located I can't do anything. So how do move things up a notch????
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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SilverSonnet

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ARrocket hit the nail on the head here. She's not different from other women 'cos she's your neighbour. She's a woman like any other, so treat her the same. Chat, kino, # or Kiss close (or both ;)) and then date man. Jeez, not hard pal ;)

Good luck with this, and hope you get what you want from the relationship

Ben ;)
 

gtownjuan

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thanks guys but this situation is different.

She lives right behind me so what's the deal with the number i could just get a 101 with her. She's like 5 years older than me so she has experience with older guys but i doubt she knows any dons.

Seriously tho i dont wanna date her i just wanna bang this chick.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonGorgon

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gtownjuan said:
thanks guys but this situation is different.

She lives right behind me so what's the deal with the number i could just get a 101 with her. She's like 5 years older than me so she has experience with older guys but i doubt she knows any dons.

Seriously tho i dont wanna date her i just wanna bang this chick.
ooh look your answer

DonGorgon said:
Get to your house when you are home alone ... girls can always find a way to do what they really want to do...
 

gtownjuan

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What would help here to build more attraction or escalate things more? Like i said we connect well but i wanna push the budget her and see what she puts out.
 
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