There is this dark skinned HB8.5 that lives next door which i get along very well with. I usually tease her alot and she responds by playfully punching me and is generally conformable with me kinoing her and she kinos back even when its just us two talking. She lives with a big family and how my house is located I can't do anything. So how do move things up a notch????
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Need help with this chick.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Get the number and get her away from the house 
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
ARrocket hit the nail on the head here. She's not different from other women 'cos she's your neighbour. She's a woman like any other, so treat her the same. Chat, kino, # or Kiss close (or both ) and then date man. Jeez, not hard pal
Good luck with this, and hope you get what you want from the relationship
Ben
) and then date man. Jeez, not hard pal Good luck with this, and hope you get what you want from the relationship
Ben
DonGorgon
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Get to your house when you are home alone ... girls can always find a way to do what they really want to do...
thanks guys but this situation is different.
She lives right behind me so what's the deal with the number i could just get a 101 with her. She's like 5 years older than me so she has experience with older guys but i doubt she knows any dons.
Seriously tho i dont wanna date her i just wanna bang this chick.
She lives right behind me so what's the deal with the number i could just get a 101 with her. She's like 5 years older than me so she has experience with older guys but i doubt she knows any dons.
Seriously tho i dont wanna date her i just wanna bang this chick.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DonGorgon
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ooh look your answergtownjuan said:
DonGorgon said:
SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
Bring her round like asking if she wants to watch that new film you just bought or something, or anything like that.