"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Need help with this chick.

gtownjuan

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There is this dark skinned HB8.5 that lives next door which i get along very well with. I usually tease her alot and she responds by playfully punching me and is generally conformable with me kinoing her and she kinos back even when its just us two talking. She lives with a big family and how my house is located I can't do anything. So how do move things up a notch????
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SilverSonnet

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ARrocket hit the nail on the head here. She's not different from other women 'cos she's your neighbour. She's a woman like any other, so treat her the same. Chat, kino, # or Kiss close (or both ;)) and then date man. Jeez, not hard pal ;)

Good luck with this, and hope you get what you want from the relationship

Ben ;)
 

gtownjuan

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thanks guys but this situation is different.

She lives right behind me so what's the deal with the number i could just get a 101 with her. She's like 5 years older than me so she has experience with older guys but i doubt she knows any dons.

Seriously tho i dont wanna date her i just wanna bang this chick.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonGorgon

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gtownjuan said:
thanks guys but this situation is different.

She lives right behind me so what's the deal with the number i could just get a 101 with her. She's like 5 years older than me so she has experience with older guys but i doubt she knows any dons.

Seriously tho i dont wanna date her i just wanna bang this chick.
ooh look your answer

DonGorgon said:
Get to your house when you are home alone ... girls can always find a way to do what they really want to do...
 

gtownjuan

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What would help here to build more attraction or escalate things more? Like i said we connect well but i wanna push the budget her and see what she puts out.
 
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