I met a girl on facebook 2 years ago and she drove an hour to meet me and we went to the movies. On the date she said I look like i dont party much. 4 months later, I saw her again, went to her dorm room to watch a movie. I held her and this time she said i look like a mommas boy. At the end of the night, I rubbed her stomach awkardly, and she said i was too touchy, so I left thinking she didnt like me. This was in NOvember of 2007. Since then, shes been textn my phone every few months asking how i've been. I look at her facebook page sometimes and I'm kind of fascinated by her because shes my perfect type. Yesterday she textd me saying just saying hey seein whats up, and she wound up asking me out "for drinks or something". I find this to be so crazy to me that this would happen, basically a girl i really like and been slacking on for 2 years asks me out. I have bad social anxiety, and am shy, so I didnt want to go out with her and freeze up and ruin it, so I siad i'd cook for her and get drinks here. What do you make of this whole situation, and whats my best bet here to make this work out good?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Need help with girl from the past
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