Need help with approaches

[high desert dj]

today I went to two malls and spent three hours walking around and didnt make any approaches.Part of the problem was that every time I saw an hb that I wanted to approach(usually a girl that was working at a store)she wopuld be surrounded by customers.The ones that were walking by were on cell phones.But mostly my problem was too nervous.
How would you guys handle these situations.

 

[Pap]

One thing that I'll do is that I'll go out with a wing/friend and we'll push each other to approach groups and/or single woman. Also, you just in a social mode and open lots of people so approaching is easier.

 

[Mercenary]

Originally posted by high desert dj
Part of the problem was that every time I saw an hb that I wanted to approach(usually a girl that was working at a store)she wopuld be surrounded by customers.

That happens to me all the time...
Last week i just went for it... I could see the customers listening in out of the corner of my eye... I didn't let it phase me. After it was all over I felt exhilarated.

You will too

 

[JJMcLure]

Originally posted by high desert dj
today I went to two malls and spent three hours walking around and didnt make any approaches.Part of the problem was that every time I saw an hb that I wanted to approach(usually a girl that was working at a store)she wopuld be surrounded by customers.The ones that were walking by were on cell phones.But mostly my problem was too nervous.
How would you guys handle these situations.

Why don't you take the pressure off yourself.

Instead of walking up and thinking you are going to ask her out, just decide you are going to talk to her to ask her a question about a product. Get talking to her about that and when you feel comfortable ask her for her number.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

If you think about things too much you'll become nervous and this will hinder your mind and mouth...just think to yourself that the outcome of talking to or getting rejected by a girl has absolutely no affect on your emotions and no negative impact on your life.
Which it doesn't!