"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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baurman

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I'm not really sure how to respond to this comment. Seems like she's questioning me about being high maintenance. Basically, on my myspace, my background is a burberry design. I found this chick that I've been talking to and I added her and she left me a comment saying:

"Hi!!!! Thanks for finding me!!!! Soo what's really up with the burberry-ness???? LOL don't b mad @ mad...... :0)"

She's a hyper chick & loves Red bull. So I dunno if I want to hit her back with something like that or what
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJDamage

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She just said what ever popped into her little MTV head.

Don't pay attention to the comment itself but rather the context of the comment.

1) she said Hi back.

2) she is thanking you for finding her

3) She is asking you a question meaning she is waiting for a response

4) She negs you and telling you she was just joking around.

All those are good signs thus far.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJVladdy

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Wolf, that's what a fag would say... I don't think the OP is a fag.
 
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