"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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baurman

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I'm not really sure how to respond to this comment. Seems like she's questioning me about being high maintenance. Basically, on my myspace, my background is a burberry design. I found this chick that I've been talking to and I added her and she left me a comment saying:

"Hi!!!! Thanks for finding me!!!! Soo what's really up with the burberry-ness???? LOL don't b mad @ mad...... :0)"

She's a hyper chick & loves Red bull. So I dunno if I want to hit her back with something like that or what
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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DJDamage

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She just said what ever popped into her little MTV head.

Don't pay attention to the comment itself but rather the context of the comment.

1) she said Hi back.

2) she is thanking you for finding her

3) She is asking you a question meaning she is waiting for a response

4) She negs you and telling you she was just joking around.

All those are good signs thus far.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJVladdy

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Wolf, that's what a fag would say... I don't think the OP is a fag.
 
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