"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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baurman

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I'm not really sure how to respond to this comment. Seems like she's questioning me about being high maintenance. Basically, on my myspace, my background is a burberry design. I found this chick that I've been talking to and I added her and she left me a comment saying:

"Hi!!!! Thanks for finding me!!!! Soo what's really up with the burberry-ness???? LOL don't b mad @ mad...... :0)"

She's a hyper chick & loves Red bull. So I dunno if I want to hit her back with something like that or what
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJDamage

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She just said what ever popped into her little MTV head.

Don't pay attention to the comment itself but rather the context of the comment.

1) she said Hi back.

2) she is thanking you for finding her

3) She is asking you a question meaning she is waiting for a response

4) She negs you and telling you she was just joking around.

All those are good signs thus far.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJVladdy

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Wolf, that's what a fag would say... I don't think the OP is a fag.
 
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