"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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baurman

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I'm not really sure how to respond to this comment. Seems like she's questioning me about being high maintenance. Basically, on my myspace, my background is a burberry design. I found this chick that I've been talking to and I added her and she left me a comment saying:

"Hi!!!! Thanks for finding me!!!! Soo what's really up with the burberry-ness???? LOL don't b mad @ mad...... :0)"

She's a hyper chick & loves Red bull. So I dunno if I want to hit her back with something like that or what
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DJDamage

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She just said what ever popped into her little MTV head.

Don't pay attention to the comment itself but rather the context of the comment.

1) she said Hi back.

2) she is thanking you for finding her

3) She is asking you a question meaning she is waiting for a response

4) She negs you and telling you she was just joking around.

All those are good signs thus far.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJVladdy

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Wolf, that's what a fag would say... I don't think the OP is a fag.
 
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