"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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baurman

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I'm not really sure how to respond to this comment. Seems like she's questioning me about being high maintenance. Basically, on my myspace, my background is a burberry design. I found this chick that I've been talking to and I added her and she left me a comment saying:

"Hi!!!! Thanks for finding me!!!! Soo what's really up with the burberry-ness???? LOL don't b mad @ mad...... :0)"

She's a hyper chick & loves Red bull. So I dunno if I want to hit her back with something like that or what
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJDamage

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She just said what ever popped into her little MTV head.

Don't pay attention to the comment itself but rather the context of the comment.

1) she said Hi back.

2) she is thanking you for finding her

3) She is asking you a question meaning she is waiting for a response

4) She negs you and telling you she was just joking around.

All those are good signs thus far.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJVladdy

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Wolf, that's what a fag would say... I don't think the OP is a fag.
 
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