nah, I was there and I know what she meant, it wasnt just a lame compliment for effect. It was a genuinely fascinated compliment. Like wow, ive never met a black guy, who is cool as hell, funny and smart as you. I am totally intrigued. Also, as one of the previous posts stated, girls want the guy to initiate the naughty stuff. even if she does have a bf, me asking her so directly, without her being right next to me, without warming her up to it by being next to her, kinoing her, etc. is not ideal. That was my fault. I do believe that she wanted me that night.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Keep us updated on your kooky hi-jinks. Maybe things will go your way. Or maybe you'll end up a parapelegic at the hands of bat-wielding boyfriend. Who knows. 
rofl. Doubt it. If that occurs then that guy is dead meat whatever he does to me, it will happen to him as well. I have friends as I said before who would be more than glad to back me up if a situation such as this occurred. 50 frat brothers, sports friends, and a number of real friends who have helped me out before. I have nothing to worry about, so people stop bringing up the whole "oh, he'll beat you up crap"
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Ur funny.
Did you blow all those frat guys for favors or something? Unless they owe you a debt of magnificent proportions, I don't think all of them would pick up arms to come to your rescue.
Besides, where the heck is your pride? Tsk tsk... relying on others to save your computer-nerd ass.
Did you blow all those frat guys for favors or something? Unless they owe you a debt of magnificent proportions, I don't think all of them would pick up arms to come to your rescue.
Besides, where the heck is your pride? Tsk tsk... relying on others to save your computer-nerd ass.
well, no, I didnt blow em, and I didnt say I would be rolling 50 deep or anything, but, im saying, if I needed it, enough help would be there
and also, pride? Im a small guy, its only prudent to bring backup to a fight with larger dudes. If you were 5'2" and 100 pounds, would you go up against a 6'2" 200 pounder with your noble "pride" I think not. (note: I am not 5'2" )
and also, pride? Im a small guy, its only prudent to bring backup to a fight with larger dudes. If you were 5'2" and 100 pounds, would you go up against a 6'2" 200 pounder with your noble "pride" I think not. (note: I am not 5'2"
)"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.