nah, I was there and I know what she meant, it wasnt just a lame compliment for effect. It was a genuinely fascinated compliment. Like wow, ive never met a black guy, who is cool as hell, funny and smart as you. I am totally intrigued. Also, as one of the previous posts stated, girls want the guy to initiate the naughty stuff. even if she does have a bf, me asking her so directly, without her being right next to me, without warming her up to it by being next to her, kinoing her, etc. is not ideal. That was my fault. I do believe that she wanted me that night.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Keep us updated on your kooky hi-jinks. Maybe things will go your way. Or maybe you'll end up a parapelegic at the hands of bat-wielding boyfriend. Who knows. 
rofl. Doubt it. If that occurs then that guy is dead meat whatever he does to me, it will happen to him as well. I have friends as I said before who would be more than glad to back me up if a situation such as this occurred. 50 frat brothers, sports friends, and a number of real friends who have helped me out before. I have nothing to worry about, so people stop bringing up the whole "oh, he'll beat you up crap"
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Ur funny.
Did you blow all those frat guys for favors or something? Unless they owe you a debt of magnificent proportions, I don't think all of them would pick up arms to come to your rescue.
Besides, where the heck is your pride? Tsk tsk... relying on others to save your computer-nerd ass.
Did you blow all those frat guys for favors or something? Unless they owe you a debt of magnificent proportions, I don't think all of them would pick up arms to come to your rescue.
Besides, where the heck is your pride? Tsk tsk... relying on others to save your computer-nerd ass.
well, no, I didnt blow em, and I didnt say I would be rolling 50 deep or anything, but, im saying, if I needed it, enough help would be there
and also, pride? Im a small guy, its only prudent to bring backup to a fight with larger dudes. If you were 5'2" and 100 pounds, would you go up against a 6'2" 200 pounder with your noble "pride" I think not. (note: I am not 5'2" )
and also, pride? Im a small guy, its only prudent to bring backup to a fight with larger dudes. If you were 5'2" and 100 pounds, would you go up against a 6'2" 200 pounder with your noble "pride" I think not. (note: I am not 5'2"
)"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.