nah, I was there and I know what she meant, it wasnt just a lame compliment for effect. It was a genuinely fascinated compliment. Like wow, ive never met a black guy, who is cool as hell, funny and smart as you. I am totally intrigued. Also, as one of the previous posts stated, girls want the guy to initiate the naughty stuff. even if she does have a bf, me asking her so directly, without her being right next to me, without warming her up to it by being next to her, kinoing her, etc. is not ideal. That was my fault. I do believe that she wanted me that night.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Keep us updated on your kooky hi-jinks. Maybe things will go your way. Or maybe you'll end up a parapelegic at the hands of bat-wielding boyfriend. Who knows. 
rofl. Doubt it. If that occurs then that guy is dead meat whatever he does to me, it will happen to him as well. I have friends as I said before who would be more than glad to back me up if a situation such as this occurred. 50 frat brothers, sports friends, and a number of real friends who have helped me out before. I have nothing to worry about, so people stop bringing up the whole "oh, he'll beat you up crap"
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Ur funny.
Did you blow all those frat guys for favors or something? Unless they owe you a debt of magnificent proportions, I don't think all of them would pick up arms to come to your rescue.
Besides, where the heck is your pride? Tsk tsk... relying on others to save your computer-nerd ass.
Did you blow all those frat guys for favors or something? Unless they owe you a debt of magnificent proportions, I don't think all of them would pick up arms to come to your rescue.
Besides, where the heck is your pride? Tsk tsk... relying on others to save your computer-nerd ass.
well, no, I didnt blow em, and I didnt say I would be rolling 50 deep or anything, but, im saying, if I needed it, enough help would be there
and also, pride? Im a small guy, its only prudent to bring backup to a fight with larger dudes. If you were 5'2" and 100 pounds, would you go up against a 6'2" 200 pounder with your noble "pride" I think not. (note: I am not 5'2" )
and also, pride? Im a small guy, its only prudent to bring backup to a fight with larger dudes. If you were 5'2" and 100 pounds, would you go up against a 6'2" 200 pounder with your noble "pride" I think not. (note: I am not 5'2"
)“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.