“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Need help fast: She asked "Do you say these things to other girls?"
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Trickster_guy_2001
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"Only when I think I'm going to get lucky."
"I only say these things to the women I really like... and then there's you."
No... I'm kidding...
You could say... "only the ones I'm attracted to (if you find her attractive)"... but leave out that "then there's you" part. You're not dating yet as far as I understood from this post, so you can be honest with her... to a degree. Don't tell her you're some kind of master manipulater or player, but letting her know that you have a few other options can't hurt.
Hollowpoint
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a) tell her you tell them to everyone - you are desperate and it is the only way you know of getting women.
b) no she is the only one - you are desperate and you are a total afc and have a mega oneitis on her.
c) somewhere between the two, without demeaning her or telling her she is the only one in your life.
Ballistik
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Heartmaster
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(1) "Ha. Do you ask that of all the guys?"
(2) "Actually I prefer saying them to guys."
(3) "Yes. In fact, six of my other current girlfriends will be receiving a copy and paste of my side of the conversation, just as soon as we're done."
Or you could mix n match
My preference would be (1)... followed by, "Seriously though, the answer is" (3).Hollowpoint
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I am quite a fan of well written poetic type stuff.
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Me: "Of course not, crazy! Hold on one sec...(Act like you are crossing a line in the palm of your hand like a checklist)"
This is just too easy.
Classical (and typical) sh!t test from a chick.
Anything remotely resembling defending yourself would mean that you have failed.
She wanted you to say that you don't say that to all the chicks and that she is special. However, saying what she wants to hear will lower her attraction level for you because she will think that you are saying what she wanted to hear.
Strange I know, but that's how it is.
So you can't say what she wants to hear. You have to say something that will either:
1. make her laugh; or
2. ignore the whole thing and switch the topic;
I would tell her yes, I say that to all the chicks to try and get in their pants and that particular line has worked 100%. For some reason it didn't work on you, what's wrong with you? Are you weird or something?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Don't say "the ones I'm attracted to" instead say "the ones I find attractive"... it carries the same meaning but in the second you're the one who's in control. In the first, she attracted you to her and she's in control. The second, you found her attractive and you're going for more. That's to be used with those immature girls who are out of control and in effect want to control you. With the afc or innocent girls it doesn't matter how you say it. If she likes you she likes you.
Anyway...
"Obviously you will have made that number up. She'll know you're joking, but still won't know what the hell to believe. You will be more mysterious while dodging the question.