"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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With a new girl at work.
So how do I handle this?

She joined my place of work over a month ago.We see each other every other day but don't talk much besides greetings.
UNTIL last week she comes to my station(for work purposes).
I start a conversation in which she asks me stuff like where I'm from and how come I don't see my kids.(I don't have any BTW although I did reply to this question).
I guess she was probably trying to find out if I'm married.
Now, upon our next meeting I ask her to give me her number.
Me: I don't have your number btw
Girl.:I don't have a phone(yeah I know)
Me: So how do I get to see you for coffee sometime
Her: Giggles and hits me on the arm, then leaves, without saying another word

So assuming it's a rejection(didn't get number)how do I proceed without things getting awkward since it's at the workplace?

PS. I know not to **** where u eat. Please don't remind me that
Otherwise honest opinion and advice required from the gurus.
I'm ready to get roasted
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You gave her exactly what she was craving...attention. Welcome to Club Orbit
 
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magevis said:
So as I eject, how do I treat her since we work together
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Pretend like nothing happened. Like you never asked her out and she never rejected you. Talk to her professionally and unemotionally.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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magevis said:
Pardon, I don't get it. Do I actively try to avoid her, or continue as if nothing ever happened
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You act the way you normally would. Never let what a woman does or does not do effect the way you act around her.
 
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Trying to avoid her is probably not good. It might reinforce in her mind that something is wrong or build an awkwardness between you two that might not currently exist.

Be polite and professional. But don’t avoid her per se. A friendly “good morning” as you would to other coworkers is fine.
 
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"Why don't you see your kids?"

This has to be the weirdest thing I've ever heard, considering you have no kids and you don't know this woman. I would not waste my time with psychos.

Are we just gonna pretend that this is normal?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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@Murkserious "Why don't you see your kids?"
U definitely onto something.

I work shifts(day or night) in a manufacturing company which runs 24/7.She only works daytime.

Most of my colleagues happen to take leave every other week, at the cost of performance bonus.

I'm saving as much as I can for a future project so I barely take leave to maximise my savings.

She obviously noticed I'm almost always around unlike most of my mates, hence the 'weird ' question.
 
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