Well our school is having a saide Hawkings dance ( that is a dnce were the girl askes the guy) and I am pretty sure this girl who is in grade 12 ( I am in grade 10) is going to ask me becasue she has been hardcore flirting with me for the last few weeks I slepted over at her hosue as just friends and what not, but the thing is she has a BF in university... I don't know if I should go for the kill or not...any suggestions?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
lol i didn't know that dance really existed... it's a Relient K song 
Ok about the advice i'd say go for the kill if she hasn't asked her BF it's because he may be busy/think it's lame/whatever reason, so she is in all her right to take you with her.
I don't know what you mean about "going for the kill" though , do you think she'll cheat her BF??, i suggest you don't make a move unless she is REALLY giving you MANY green flags good luck!
Ok about the advice i'd say go for the kill if she hasn't asked her BF it's because he may be busy/think it's lame/whatever reason, so she is in all her right to take you with her.
I don't know what you mean about "going for the kill" though , do you think she'll cheat her BF??, i suggest you don't make a move unless she is REALLY giving you MANY green flags
good luck!supajsilver2
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Sadies is tomorrow night for our school; it's excellent stuff, other schools are missing out.
This question is really something only you can answer. We can never know specifics about her or her guy. You're the one that reads the vibes and such. Your call.
On an unrelated but still hilarious note, a fat HB4 friend of an ex of mine claims that she is not attending sadies tomorrow and can't ask anyone because she "is babysitting," when it's painfully obvious she's just using the babysit job as an awful excuse not to ask any of the 5 people she's been stalking. Fun fun fun stuff...
This question is really something only you can answer. We can never know specifics about her or her guy. You're the one that reads the vibes and such. Your call.
On an unrelated but still hilarious note, a fat HB4 friend of an ex of mine claims that she is not attending sadies tomorrow and can't ask anyone because she "is babysitting," when it's painfully obvious she's just using the babysit job as an awful excuse not to ask any of the 5 people she's been stalking. Fun fun fun stuff...
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Man, I wish there were more like "fat" HBs.
You know, he actually sexy ones. Alot, but not too much in the waist, great shape, and cute face. Too bad I've only seen like 1 or 2 of them...
The majority of the fat HBs probably aren't even HBs at all, maybe 1s-3s on most of them. Too bad lol.
You know, he actually sexy ones. Alot, but not too much in the waist, great shape, and cute face. Too bad I've only seen like 1 or 2 of them...
The majority of the fat HBs probably aren't even HBs at all, maybe 1s-3s on most of them. Too bad lol.
jmm854
Master Don Juan
The correct answer is always yes. I don't care if she's 2 grades above you.
Learn to spell. It's Sadie Hawkins, not whatever the f*ck you scribbled out.
Somebody remind this man...how many times do we live?
Learn to spell. It's Sadie Hawkins, not whatever the f*ck you scribbled out.
Somebody remind this man...how many times do we live?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
ok nvm the fatHB part...
go to the dance with her and don't get yourself beaten up by her bf. you're better then her bf anyway if she likes you and already has a bf.
age really doesn't matter... there are some really old guys with 20 year old wives and stuff... you just gotta be good.
and besides, 2 grades is nothing. thats just like 2 years older then you, who cares if you're two years older/younger then the people you're going out with.
go to the dance with her and don't get yourself beaten up by her bf. you're better then her bf anyway if she likes you and already has a bf.
age really doesn't matter... there are some really old guys with 20 year old wives and stuff... you just gotta be good.
and besides, 2 grades is nothing. thats just like 2 years older then you, who cares if you're two years older/younger then the people you're going out with.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
double post
*sry*
*sry*