"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

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Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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Dustin

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Well our school is having a saide Hawkings dance ( that is a dnce were the girl askes the guy) and I am pretty sure this girl who is in grade 12 ( I am in grade 10) is going to ask me becasue she has been hardcore flirting with me for the last few weeks I slepted over at her hosue as just friends and what not, but the thing is she has a BF in university... I don't know if I should go for the kill or not...any suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lol i didn't know that dance really existed... it's a Relient K song :p

Ok about the advice i'd say go for the kill if she hasn't asked her BF it's because he may be busy/think it's lame/whatever reason, so she is in all her right to take you with her.

I don't know what you mean about "going for the kill" though , do you think she'll cheat her BF??, i suggest you don't make a move unless she is REALLY giving you MANY green flags :) good luck!
 

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Sadies is tomorrow night for our school; it's excellent stuff, other schools are missing out.

This question is really something only you can answer. We can never know specifics about her or her guy. You're the one that reads the vibes and such. Your call.

On an unrelated but still hilarious note, a fat HB4 friend of an ex of mine claims that she is not attending sadies tomorrow and can't ask anyone because she "is babysitting," when it's painfully obvious she's just using the babysit job as an awful excuse not to ask any of the 5 people she's been stalking. Fun fun fun stuff...
 

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Man, I wish there were more like "fat" HBs.
You know, he actually sexy ones. Alot, but not too much in the waist, great shape, and cute face. Too bad I've only seen like 1 or 2 of them...
The majority of the fat HBs probably aren't even HBs at all, maybe 1s-3s on most of them. Too bad lol.
 

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The correct answer is always yes. I don't care if she's 2 grades above you.

Learn to spell. It's Sadie Hawkins, not whatever the f*ck you scribbled out.

Somebody remind this man...how many times do we live?
 

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ok nvm the fatHB part...
go to the dance with her and don't get yourself beaten up by her bf. you're better then her bf anyway if she likes you and already has a bf.
age really doesn't matter... there are some really old guys with 20 year old wives and stuff... you just gotta be good.
and besides, 2 grades is nothing. thats just like 2 years older then you, who cares if you're two years older/younger then the people you're going out with.
 
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