Well our school is having a saide Hawkings dance ( that is a dnce were the girl askes the guy) and I am pretty sure this girl who is in grade 12 ( I am in grade 10) is going to ask me becasue she has been hardcore flirting with me for the last few weeks I slepted over at her hosue as just friends and what not, but the thing is she has a BF in university... I don't know if I should go for the kill or not...any suggestions?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
lol i didn't know that dance really existed... it's a Relient K song 
Ok about the advice i'd say go for the kill if she hasn't asked her BF it's because he may be busy/think it's lame/whatever reason, so she is in all her right to take you with her.
I don't know what you mean about "going for the kill" though , do you think she'll cheat her BF??, i suggest you don't make a move unless she is REALLY giving you MANY green flags good luck!
Ok about the advice i'd say go for the kill if she hasn't asked her BF it's because he may be busy/think it's lame/whatever reason, so she is in all her right to take you with her.
I don't know what you mean about "going for the kill" though , do you think she'll cheat her BF??, i suggest you don't make a move unless she is REALLY giving you MANY green flags
good luck!supajsilver2
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Sadies is tomorrow night for our school; it's excellent stuff, other schools are missing out.
This question is really something only you can answer. We can never know specifics about her or her guy. You're the one that reads the vibes and such. Your call.
On an unrelated but still hilarious note, a fat HB4 friend of an ex of mine claims that she is not attending sadies tomorrow and can't ask anyone because she "is babysitting," when it's painfully obvious she's just using the babysit job as an awful excuse not to ask any of the 5 people she's been stalking. Fun fun fun stuff...
This question is really something only you can answer. We can never know specifics about her or her guy. You're the one that reads the vibes and such. Your call.
On an unrelated but still hilarious note, a fat HB4 friend of an ex of mine claims that she is not attending sadies tomorrow and can't ask anyone because she "is babysitting," when it's painfully obvious she's just using the babysit job as an awful excuse not to ask any of the 5 people she's been stalking. Fun fun fun stuff...
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Man, I wish there were more like "fat" HBs.
You know, he actually sexy ones. Alot, but not too much in the waist, great shape, and cute face. Too bad I've only seen like 1 or 2 of them...
The majority of the fat HBs probably aren't even HBs at all, maybe 1s-3s on most of them. Too bad lol.
You know, he actually sexy ones. Alot, but not too much in the waist, great shape, and cute face. Too bad I've only seen like 1 or 2 of them...
The majority of the fat HBs probably aren't even HBs at all, maybe 1s-3s on most of them. Too bad lol.
jmm854
Master Don Juan
The correct answer is always yes. I don't care if she's 2 grades above you.
Learn to spell. It's Sadie Hawkins, not whatever the f*ck you scribbled out.
Somebody remind this man...how many times do we live?
Learn to spell. It's Sadie Hawkins, not whatever the f*ck you scribbled out.
Somebody remind this man...how many times do we live?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
ok nvm the fatHB part...
go to the dance with her and don't get yourself beaten up by her bf. you're better then her bf anyway if she likes you and already has a bf.
age really doesn't matter... there are some really old guys with 20 year old wives and stuff... you just gotta be good.
and besides, 2 grades is nothing. thats just like 2 years older then you, who cares if you're two years older/younger then the people you're going out with.
go to the dance with her and don't get yourself beaten up by her bf. you're better then her bf anyway if she likes you and already has a bf.
age really doesn't matter... there are some really old guys with 20 year old wives and stuff... you just gotta be good.
and besides, 2 grades is nothing. thats just like 2 years older then you, who cares if you're two years older/younger then the people you're going out with.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
double post
*sry*
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