Well our school is having a saide Hawkings dance ( that is a dnce were the girl askes the guy) and I am pretty sure this girl who is in grade 12 ( I am in grade 10) is going to ask me becasue she has been hardcore flirting with me for the last few weeks I slepted over at her hosue as just friends and what not, but the thing is she has a BF in university... I don't know if I should go for the kill or not...any suggestions?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Need help ASAP
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
lol i didn't know that dance really existed... it's a Relient K song 
Ok about the advice i'd say go for the kill if she hasn't asked her BF it's because he may be busy/think it's lame/whatever reason, so she is in all her right to take you with her.
I don't know what you mean about "going for the kill" though , do you think she'll cheat her BF??, i suggest you don't make a move unless she is REALLY giving you MANY green flags good luck!
Ok about the advice i'd say go for the kill if she hasn't asked her BF it's because he may be busy/think it's lame/whatever reason, so she is in all her right to take you with her.
I don't know what you mean about "going for the kill" though , do you think she'll cheat her BF??, i suggest you don't make a move unless she is REALLY giving you MANY green flags
good luck!supajsilver2
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Sadies is tomorrow night for our school; it's excellent stuff, other schools are missing out.
This question is really something only you can answer. We can never know specifics about her or her guy. You're the one that reads the vibes and such. Your call.
On an unrelated but still hilarious note, a fat HB4 friend of an ex of mine claims that she is not attending sadies tomorrow and can't ask anyone because she "is babysitting," when it's painfully obvious she's just using the babysit job as an awful excuse not to ask any of the 5 people she's been stalking. Fun fun fun stuff...
This question is really something only you can answer. We can never know specifics about her or her guy. You're the one that reads the vibes and such. Your call.
On an unrelated but still hilarious note, a fat HB4 friend of an ex of mine claims that she is not attending sadies tomorrow and can't ask anyone because she "is babysitting," when it's painfully obvious she's just using the babysit job as an awful excuse not to ask any of the 5 people she's been stalking. Fun fun fun stuff...
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
Man, I wish there were more like "fat" HBs.
You know, he actually sexy ones. Alot, but not too much in the waist, great shape, and cute face. Too bad I've only seen like 1 or 2 of them...
The majority of the fat HBs probably aren't even HBs at all, maybe 1s-3s on most of them. Too bad lol.
You know, he actually sexy ones. Alot, but not too much in the waist, great shape, and cute face. Too bad I've only seen like 1 or 2 of them...
The majority of the fat HBs probably aren't even HBs at all, maybe 1s-3s on most of them. Too bad lol.
jmm854
Master Don Juan
The correct answer is always yes. I don't care if she's 2 grades above you.
Learn to spell. It's Sadie Hawkins, not whatever the f*ck you scribbled out.
Somebody remind this man...how many times do we live?
Learn to spell. It's Sadie Hawkins, not whatever the f*ck you scribbled out.
Somebody remind this man...how many times do we live?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
ok nvm the fatHB part...
go to the dance with her and don't get yourself beaten up by her bf. you're better then her bf anyway if she likes you and already has a bf.
age really doesn't matter... there are some really old guys with 20 year old wives and stuff... you just gotta be good.
and besides, 2 grades is nothing. thats just like 2 years older then you, who cares if you're two years older/younger then the people you're going out with.
go to the dance with her and don't get yourself beaten up by her bf. you're better then her bf anyway if she likes you and already has a bf.
age really doesn't matter... there are some really old guys with 20 year old wives and stuff... you just gotta be good.
and besides, 2 grades is nothing. thats just like 2 years older then you, who cares if you're two years older/younger then the people you're going out with.
Grand Wizzard Alamar
Master Don Juan
double post
*sry*
*sry*