"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Need help approaching this chick at clothing shop..

Harmonix

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Hi there fellow dj's. I'm Planning to approach this chick that i saw at a clothing shop next week and I don't know what to do. I've been there once and asked her about the clothes there but I didn't make my move because I *****d out lol and she seem to be pretty friendly. Does anyone have any ideas or tips? Thanks very much.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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schttrj

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well i think for noobs, the best way to approach a girl is a simple "hi". easier when you two are actually getting to meet! See, learning some routines or transitions would really confuse you up and you would come off as a robot!

best advice i got ever: suck it up, walk up to her and say "hi, i am ..... what's your name?" She better be polite.
 

Wodan

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Ask her about a top, then say what size do you think i am? come and help me find the right size, then as she's looking at the different sizes thinking.

Say to her in a vary serious tone 'Im very big' then pause and laugh lol, ive done this before.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Killer Six Pac

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haha too easy dude, just ask her to a pick a shirt that SHE THINKS would look good on you.

as for the number just get it before you go. :up:
 
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