"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Need help approaching this chick at clothing shop..

Harmonix

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Hi there fellow dj's. I'm Planning to approach this chick that i saw at a clothing shop next week and I don't know what to do. I've been there once and asked her about the clothes there but I didn't make my move because I *****d out lol and she seem to be pretty friendly. Does anyone have any ideas or tips? Thanks very much.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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schttrj

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well i think for noobs, the best way to approach a girl is a simple "hi". easier when you two are actually getting to meet! See, learning some routines or transitions would really confuse you up and you would come off as a robot!

best advice i got ever: suck it up, walk up to her and say "hi, i am ..... what's your name?" She better be polite.
 

Wodan

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Ask her about a top, then say what size do you think i am? come and help me find the right size, then as she's looking at the different sizes thinking.

Say to her in a vary serious tone 'Im very big' then pause and laugh lol, ive done this before.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Killer Six Pac

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haha too easy dude, just ask her to a pick a shirt that SHE THINKS would look good on you.

as for the number just get it before you go. :up:
 
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