Hi there fellow dj's. I'm Planning to approach this chick that i saw at a clothing shop next week and I don't know what to do. I've been there once and asked her about the clothes there but I didn't make my move because I *****d out lol and she seem to be pretty friendly. Does anyone have any ideas or tips? Thanks very much.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Need help approaching this chick at clothing shop..
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
well i think for noobs, the best way to approach a girl is a simple "hi". easier when you two are actually getting to meet! See, learning some routines or transitions would really confuse you up and you would come off as a robot!
best advice i got ever: suck it up, walk up to her and say "hi, i am ..... what's your name?" She better be polite.
best advice i got ever: suck it up, walk up to her and say "hi, i am ..... what's your name?" She better be polite.
Daddy The Pimp
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Easy sh!t .
Her job is to HELP you . So , youll not be rejected .
Just ask her something about clothers , than tease her , make fun of her .
Then have some fluff talk and get her digits .
Also , you can do this with your wing .
My father did this with me lol . Check it out .
Her job is to HELP you . So , youll not be rejected .
Just ask her something about clothers , than tease her , make fun of her .
Then have some fluff talk and get her digits .
Also , you can do this with your wing .
My father did this with me lol . Check it out .
Ask her about a top, then say what size do you think i am? come and help me find the right size, then as she's looking at the different sizes thinking.
Say to her in a vary serious tone 'Im very big' then pause and laugh lol, ive done this before.
Say to her in a vary serious tone 'Im very big' then pause and laugh lol, ive done this before.
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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haha too easy dude, just ask her to a pick a shirt that SHE THINKS would look good on you.
as for the number just get it before you go.
as for the number just get it before you go.