Hi there fellow dj's. I'm Planning to approach this chick that i saw at a clothing shop next week and I don't know what to do. I've been there once and asked her about the clothes there but I didn't make my move because I *****d out lol and she seem to be pretty friendly. Does anyone have any ideas or tips? Thanks very much.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Need help approaching this chick at clothing shop..
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
well i think for noobs, the best way to approach a girl is a simple "hi". easier when you two are actually getting to meet! See, learning some routines or transitions would really confuse you up and you would come off as a robot!
best advice i got ever: suck it up, walk up to her and say "hi, i am ..... what's your name?" She better be polite.
best advice i got ever: suck it up, walk up to her and say "hi, i am ..... what's your name?" She better be polite.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Easy sh!t .
Her job is to HELP you . So , youll not be rejected .
Just ask her something about clothers , than tease her , make fun of her .
Then have some fluff talk and get her digits .
Also , you can do this with your wing .
My father did this with me lol . Check it out .
Her job is to HELP you . So , youll not be rejected .
Just ask her something about clothers , than tease her , make fun of her .
Then have some fluff talk and get her digits .
Also , you can do this with your wing .
My father did this with me lol . Check it out .
Ask her about a top, then say what size do you think i am? come and help me find the right size, then as she's looking at the different sizes thinking.
Say to her in a vary serious tone 'Im very big' then pause and laugh lol, ive done this before.
Say to her in a vary serious tone 'Im very big' then pause and laugh lol, ive done this before.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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haha too easy dude, just ask her to a pick a shirt that SHE THINKS would look good on you.
as for the number just get it before you go.
as for the number just get it before you go.