"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Need different exercise
- Thread starter Credos
- Start date
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What, deadlifts x 50reps? Why?Credos said:
You can replace deadlifts with rack deadlifts. Set the safety pins up in the power rack with a barbell on it such that the barbell is about 2" below your knee. Rack deads rely far less on the quads, hamstrings and glutes, but they're good for overloading the back (more weight can be used than floor deadlifts).
Kettlebell clean and press... ---> Barbell clean and press?
-shaun
[S]alvatore
Master Don Juan
Low weights, but doing it a lot more, so that the muscles become used to the weights and grow more "Solid"...shaunuk said:
Well thats the main problem with the deadlifts, my back hurts like hell... thats why i wanted a new exercise.shaunuk said:
Thanks for the fast response though
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
seems like I'm getting a lot of people who don't understand me here...organizedconfusion
Master Don Juan
Deadlifts 10 (sets)x 3-4 (reps) 85% max effort
(I don't know your level of fitness but I am assuming you are well enough off to do 10 sets if you are already doing 50 reps with 135)
weighted pull ups 6 x 5-6 reps
clean & press 6 x 7-9
Push ups 100 as fast and as much as you can
curls 6 x 8-10
rest until COMPLETLY recovered then repeat,could be three days could be five-as you become progressivly stronger you may have to increase your resting time.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
If you want "solid" muscles, low reps are the way to go. If you want "pretty" muscles then pump out reps of about 8-12.
I prefer the 4-6 range. Builds mass, and builds it solid/strong.
If deadlifts hurt, you're doing them wrong.