"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Physicist.

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I'm 18 years old and very unexperienced in dating.
I'm going out with this girl to a place she had suggested, it's basically sightseeing lol, the thing is it's gonna be a short date, she lives kinda far away and it would be a waste of time to just come for that. I'm thinking of grabbing smthing to eat with her but idk what more to do lol, I thought to invite her to my house(we've been together before, but don't know each other that well) to chill, watch something or whatever but since its our first date inviting her over could give her a wrong impression.
I need your help guys, what do you think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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marmel75

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I'm 18 years old and very unexperienced in dating.
I'm going out with this girl to a place she had suggested, it's basically sightseeing lol, the thing is it's gonna be a short date, she lives kinda far away and it would be a waste of time to just come for that. I'm thinking of grabbing smthing to eat with her but idk what more to do lol, I thought to invite her to my house(we've been together before, but don't know each other that well) to chill, watch something or whatever but since its our first date inviting her over could give her a wrong impression.
I need your help guys, what do you think?
Ok...first thing you need to do is take some deep breaths and relax. It's not that serious. It's just a date. She's just a woman. There will be lots of others just like her. R-E-L-A-X.

Now that we have that out of the way, there is never a bad time to make a bold move in my opinion as long as you do it properly. If you guys are having fun and things are going well, invite her back to your house and tell her you are getting hungry and you want to cook for her. Chicks LOVE that...make something that tastes good and is simple...something like chicken and pasta with vegetables in there. Or shrimp with pasta, etc...basically you want to make sure no matter how bad you are at this you can't F it up.

Cook, eat, then go sit on the couch and turn on netflix and do your thing. How will you give her the wrong impression? Women love sex just as much as guys if not more, they just don't want to outwardly show it.
 

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Ok...first thing you need to do is take some deep breaths and relax. It's not that serious. It's just a date. She's just a woman. There will be lots of others just like her. R-E-L-A-X.

Now that we have that out of the way, there is never a bad time to make a bold move in my opinion as long as you do it properly. If you guys are having fun and things are going well, invite her back to your house and tell her you are getting hungry and you want to cook for her. Chicks LOVE that...make something that tastes good and is simple...something like chicken and pasta with vegetables in there. Or shrimp with pasta, etc...basically you want to make sure no matter how bad you are at this you can't F it up.

Cook, eat, then go sit on the couch and turn on netflix and do your thing. How will you give her the wrong impression? Women love sex just as much as guys if not more, they just don't want to outwardly show it.
I can't cook for ****, do i invite her to see a movie/series? I'm a bit nervous because I never did this before.
 

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Movies aren't good for a first date. You are worried too much about pleasing her, relax... what do you like to do? Plan a date around that. Girls like that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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