"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm 18 years old and very unexperienced in dating.
I'm going out with this girl to a place she had suggested, it's basically sightseeing lol, the thing is it's gonna be a short date, she lives kinda far away and it would be a waste of time to just come for that. I'm thinking of grabbing smthing to eat with her but idk what more to do lol, I thought to invite her to my house(we've been together before, but don't know each other that well) to chill, watch something or whatever but since its our first date inviting her over could give her a wrong impression.
I need your help guys, what do you think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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marmel75

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I'm 18 years old and very unexperienced in dating.
I'm going out with this girl to a place she had suggested, it's basically sightseeing lol, the thing is it's gonna be a short date, she lives kinda far away and it would be a waste of time to just come for that. I'm thinking of grabbing smthing to eat with her but idk what more to do lol, I thought to invite her to my house(we've been together before, but don't know each other that well) to chill, watch something or whatever but since its our first date inviting her over could give her a wrong impression.
I need your help guys, what do you think?
Ok...first thing you need to do is take some deep breaths and relax. It's not that serious. It's just a date. She's just a woman. There will be lots of others just like her. R-E-L-A-X.

Now that we have that out of the way, there is never a bad time to make a bold move in my opinion as long as you do it properly. If you guys are having fun and things are going well, invite her back to your house and tell her you are getting hungry and you want to cook for her. Chicks LOVE that...make something that tastes good and is simple...something like chicken and pasta with vegetables in there. Or shrimp with pasta, etc...basically you want to make sure no matter how bad you are at this you can't F it up.

Cook, eat, then go sit on the couch and turn on netflix and do your thing. How will you give her the wrong impression? Women love sex just as much as guys if not more, they just don't want to outwardly show it.
 

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Ok...first thing you need to do is take some deep breaths and relax. It's not that serious. It's just a date. She's just a woman. There will be lots of others just like her. R-E-L-A-X.

Now that we have that out of the way, there is never a bad time to make a bold move in my opinion as long as you do it properly. If you guys are having fun and things are going well, invite her back to your house and tell her you are getting hungry and you want to cook for her. Chicks LOVE that...make something that tastes good and is simple...something like chicken and pasta with vegetables in there. Or shrimp with pasta, etc...basically you want to make sure no matter how bad you are at this you can't F it up.

Cook, eat, then go sit on the couch and turn on netflix and do your thing. How will you give her the wrong impression? Women love sex just as much as guys if not more, they just don't want to outwardly show it.
I can't cook for ****, do i invite her to see a movie/series? I'm a bit nervous because I never did this before.
 

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Movies aren't good for a first date. You are worried too much about pleasing her, relax... what do you like to do? Plan a date around that. Girls like that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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