RicBoy
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Would you reach out to her in a few months if you were me?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Need closure from you guys.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Doctor Europeo
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No, bro. Find younger and hotter poozy.
No, don't do it! Walk away!
RicBoy
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It really hurted hearing my cousin told what she said to her wife.
This is what happened:
Last 2 weeks together she was distant since her father’s birthday, we still met once a week rather than twice. She didn’t initiate a single msg during this time but replied to mine but took her time. One day I called her twice she didn’t pick up and later on I called her 4 times and left a msg and she finally replied very angry even told me to **** off. Next day we exchanged msgs and she said I’m more into this than her and she doesn’t have time to meet always twice a week that’s stressed her out. 2 days later she ended it.
post break up. I sent some 10 msgs 5 days later drunk but deleted them she didn’t see them only 1 msg where I said I was drunk and miss her.
3 days later I sent a msg asking to talk to her face to face. She replied we won’t meet to talk and that she made her decision and it won’t work out anymore. We exchanged a few more msgs back and forth and she kept saying no that things went too fast too serious. A week later I sent a birthday msg to her and apologized for not accepting the break up right away and she replied thanks no hard feelings. And that was it 32 days no contact.
Dude, if you want your girl back, cut her ass off, no contact, find someone younger and hotter than her and flaunt it. By then, you don't want her back.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Pierce Manhammer
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