RicBoy
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Would you reach out to her in a few months if you were me?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Need closure from you guys.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Doctor Europeo
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No, bro. Find younger and hotter poozy.
No, don't do it! Walk away!
RicBoy
Master Don Juan
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It really hurted hearing my cousin told what she said to her wife.
This is what happened:
Last 2 weeks together she was distant since her father’s birthday, we still met once a week rather than twice. She didn’t initiate a single msg during this time but replied to mine but took her time. One day I called her twice she didn’t pick up and later on I called her 4 times and left a msg and she finally replied very angry even told me to **** off. Next day we exchanged msgs and she said I’m more into this than her and she doesn’t have time to meet always twice a week that’s stressed her out. 2 days later she ended it.
post break up. I sent some 10 msgs 5 days later drunk but deleted them she didn’t see them only 1 msg where I said I was drunk and miss her.
3 days later I sent a msg asking to talk to her face to face. She replied we won’t meet to talk and that she made her decision and it won’t work out anymore. We exchanged a few more msgs back and forth and she kept saying no that things went too fast too serious. A week later I sent a birthday msg to her and apologized for not accepting the break up right away and she replied thanks no hard feelings. And that was it 32 days no contact.
Dude, if you want your girl back, cut her ass off, no contact, find someone younger and hotter than her and flaunt it. By then, you don't want her back.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Pierce Manhammer
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