keoss
Don Juan
hello Djs
i need some original idea for a birthday gift .it's for my ex-girlfriend , she is 22 .
thanks
i need some original idea for a birthday gift .it's for my ex-girlfriend , she is 22 .
thanks
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
El MonoLoco
Master Don Juan
put a bow on your head....
use your imagination
:crackup:
use your imagination
:crackup:
keoss
Don Juan
dont be an idiot 
i want to hear ideas from other people .
i want to hear ideas from other people .flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
How about asking a proper question.
You can get your girl a damned toothbrush and she'll still be happy.
You can get your girl a damned toothbrush and she'll still be happy.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
JROD
New Member
Guess you two are on good terms still. Possibly getting back with her?
What's your EX into? What's her interests?
What's your EX into? What's her interests?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
But then it wouldn't be original, now would it? And why are you buying something for an ex?keoss said:dont be an idiot
keoss
Don Juan
yeah , we are in good term.i want something that wont say " i still feel sth for u " because i dont feel sth for her . this is my dialema .we are only friend now , but good freinds.
keoss
Don Juan
very funny and original tooCash said:
."She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Get her nothing.
Ex's are a waste of time.
Ex's are a waste of time.
keoss
Don Juan
wow , all wonderfull ideas.what a waiste of time.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
Yes, we don't condone gifts for any reason. If you are going to be giving gifts to say "I don't want to say I still feel for you", than you are still caught up on her, and you still feel for her.
You wouldn't bother asking if you didn't. Just treat her like another woman.
Pick a good movie, two theatre passes, something practical. If you want to send out a message, get her something she can use on a date with another guy, and put it into words when you place the gift in her arms.
You shouldn't be scared anyways. I buy all of my gifts for women at garage/house sales, there is always stuff that women love there but never have any use for.
You wouldn't bother asking if you didn't. Just treat her like another woman.
Pick a good movie, two theatre passes, something practical. If you want to send out a message, get her something she can use on a date with another guy, and put it into words when you place the gift in her arms.
You shouldn't be scared anyways. I buy all of my gifts for women at garage/house sales, there is always stuff that women love there but never have any use for.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
keoss
Don Juan
thanks for ur reply. to tell u the truth , i dont feel anything for her , it's been more than 6 or 7 mounths that we separated .my probleme is that am confused , as i dont know much about girls interpretations and that stuff , u can only imagine my dialema , if i am to give her some kind of gifts , she would have thought that am in some kinda of trance for her , that's why i asked about kinds of gifts.i know , my post wanst that clear , to rewrite it in another way : "what gifts can i give to a friend ? " and i think the answer would be :a nice 'friendly' postcard , with some friendly words on it .
thanks a lot.
thanks a lot.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
Postcards... I think you just pushed me over the edge. WHy did I NEVER think of postcards when sarging at the post office... I feel like a retard right now.
JROD
New Member
Is she interested or seeing anyone now?
Give her a gift card to somewhere like a restaurant and tell her to use it with another guy she may like.
Give her a gift card to somewhere like a restaurant and tell her to use it with another guy she may like.
keoss
Don Juan
like it . this way i'll put all doubts away.JROD said:
thanks