"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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need an original idea

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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flippinfreak

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How about asking a proper question.

You can get your girl a damned toothbrush and she'll still be happy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Guess you two are on good terms still. Possibly getting back with her?

What's your EX into? What's her interests?
 

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keoss said:
dont be an idiot :) i want to hear ideas from other people .
But then it wouldn't be original, now would it? And why are you buying something for an ex?
 

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yeah , we are in good term.i want something that wont say " i still feel sth for u " because i dont feel sth for her . this is my dialema .we are only friend now , but good freinds.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Box of toothpicks
 

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Yes, we don't condone gifts for any reason. If you are going to be giving gifts to say "I don't want to say I still feel for you", than you are still caught up on her, and you still feel for her.

You wouldn't bother asking if you didn't. Just treat her like another woman.

Pick a good movie, two theatre passes, something practical. If you want to send out a message, get her something she can use on a date with another guy, and put it into words when you place the gift in her arms.

You shouldn't be scared anyways. I buy all of my gifts for women at garage/house sales, there is always stuff that women love there but never have any use for.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thanks for ur reply. to tell u the truth , i dont feel anything for her , it's been more than 6 or 7 mounths that we separated .my probleme is that am confused , as i dont know much about girls interpretations and that stuff , u can only imagine my dialema , if i am to give her some kind of gifts , she would have thought that am in some kinda of trance for her , that's why i asked about kinds of gifts.i know , my post wanst that clear , to rewrite it in another way : "what gifts can i give to a friend ? " and i think the answer would be :a nice 'friendly' postcard , with some friendly words on it .
thanks a lot.
 

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Postcards... I think you just pushed me over the edge. WHy did I NEVER think of postcards when sarging at the post office... I feel like a retard right now.
 

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Is she interested or seeing anyone now?

Give her a gift card to somewhere like a restaurant and tell her to use it with another guy she may like.
 
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