it feels like every weekend i come to a crossroads with my decision making skills. ive been kinda getting tired of my friends, but the thing that is bugging me the most is the lack of girls in my life. i know i know, plently of you out there are saying "well thats nothing to complain about" or "why are you so whipped" but regardless im still pretty down because i want a girlfriend badly. which brings me to now. every weekend i go out, which means friday and saturday nights obviously. but i dont really end up meeting girls. my problem used to be that i was trying to hard and looking too hard to meet girls. so someone suggested to me that i just stick with the boys, have fun, and the girls will come along. well, ive been trying that theory now and all iam left with is my two hands at night. basically, im sick of being lonely. i have everything i want in life, except a girl. the thing is, i know how to play the game once the opprotunity is given to me, but for some reason i cant seem to find a girl, and when she does come around i P****y out and dont say **** to her. now this leaves me at tonight. f**K the past and whatnot, tonight is all i care about. i want to meet a girl thats right for me, but i dont know where to go. should i just stay home or do you always have to be in it to win it?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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- Thread starter G Rambo34
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
for some reason i cant seem to find a girl, and when she does come around i P****y out and dont say **** to her. It sounds like you already know what your problem is.
Also, you're not gonna meet any girls staying home.. When you stop looking, then you will find her. Quit stressin about it.. it never solves anything. One thing you could try is taking a wing woman out with you.
Also, you're not gonna meet any girls staying home.. When you stop looking, then you will find her. Quit stressin about it.. it never solves anything. One thing you could try is taking a wing woman out with you.
Go out and try to socialize more and more, even if not with your buddies. Think about that, you will be out of your comfort zone and getting direct practice with unfamiliar situations. Last night, my wing was M.I.A. for some reason and I had to go it alone to the mall and sarge, and I did. Afterwards I hit up the car show which is something I've NEVER done and I made an effort to speak to ppl, even though the ratio of guys to girls must've been like 10:1, I still forced myself to socialize. Don't quit doing the things you like 2 do, that would be unfair to yourself.