it feels like every weekend i come to a crossroads with my decision making skills. ive been kinda getting tired of my friends, but the thing that is bugging me the most is the lack of girls in my life. i know i know, plently of you out there are saying "well thats nothing to complain about" or "why are you so whipped" but regardless im still pretty down because i want a girlfriend badly. which brings me to now. every weekend i go out, which means friday and saturday nights obviously. but i dont really end up meeting girls. my problem used to be that i was trying to hard and looking too hard to meet girls. so someone suggested to me that i just stick with the boys, have fun, and the girls will come along. well, ive been trying that theory now and all iam left with is my two hands at night. basically, im sick of being lonely. i have everything i want in life, except a girl. the thing is, i know how to play the game once the opprotunity is given to me, but for some reason i cant seem to find a girl, and when she does come around i P****y out and dont say **** to her. now this leaves me at tonight. f**K the past and whatnot, tonight is all i care about. i want to meet a girl thats right for me, but i dont know where to go. should i just stay home or do you always have to be in it to win it?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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- Thread starter G Rambo34
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
splinterkb
Master Don Juan
for some reason i cant seem to find a girl, and when she does come around i P****y out and dont say **** to her. It sounds like you already know what your problem is.
Also, you're not gonna meet any girls staying home.. When you stop looking, then you will find her. Quit stressin about it.. it never solves anything. One thing you could try is taking a wing woman out with you.
Also, you're not gonna meet any girls staying home.. When you stop looking, then you will find her. Quit stressin about it.. it never solves anything. One thing you could try is taking a wing woman out with you.
Go out and try to socialize more and more, even if not with your buddies. Think about that, you will be out of your comfort zone and getting direct practice with unfamiliar situations. Last night, my wing was M.I.A. for some reason and I had to go it alone to the mall and sarge, and I did. Afterwards I hit up the car show which is something I've NEVER done and I made an effort to speak to ppl, even though the ratio of guys to girls must've been like 10:1, I still forced myself to socialize. Don't quit doing the things you like 2 do, that would be unfair to yourself.