"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Ok, so I have never done this before, but I got bored one night and started talking to this girl through an on-line dating website. I start talking to this girl, eventually e-mailing this girl daily and talking to her on the phone for like 2 hours a night.

I have now been dating her for several weeks now. However, the only time she seems to want to spend with me is talking on the phone for a few hous every night, texting back and forth through the day, and me picking her up during her long lunch break on Tueasdays and Thursdays and hanging out(I bring her back to my place and have messed aroung with her several times).

However, she is my girlfriend now and has canceled our scheduled plans to hang out(at a set time) on weekends now 5 weekends in a row. Granted the first two weekends we weren't boyfriend and girlfriend yet.

She says all these things like "happy two week anniversary" on texts to me and that she loves hanging out with me, but at the last minute or even after we are supposed to be hanging out she has excuses like I have to go to my nephew's football game, I have to grade papers, or something so she flakes and doesn't hang out with me.

Even after she cancels on me last minute, she doesn't try to hang out on Sunday or later that day. Whats up with this girl? How should I react from a girl who keeps canceling on me?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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btw, I know for a fact this girl is not seeing other guys. Don't ask why. I just know that this is not the case. It, to me, seems she she just wants someone she can talk to me when she wants.

She told me she basically has no other friends.
 
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Make yourself less readily available. She'll then go out of her way to spend more time with you and give you what you want, because she'll repect the time you DO give her even more.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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collegeEJ said:
I have now been dating her for several weeks now ... However, she is my girlfriend now
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Nope, she's using you just to kill time between classes/parties when she's bored. Demand respect from her, and if she doesn't shape up, dump her ass.
 
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I was thinking the same thing. It does seem that she just wants me on her own time to talk on the phone, hang out at her lunchtime, etc.

Ron Paul for President '08.
 
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"btw, I know for a fact this girl is not seeing other guys. Don't ask why. I just know that this is not the case."

HAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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no weekends.........


must be she's in LOOVE. HAHAHA!!!!

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