need advice on flirting

[rocco]

help. i suck at flirting and maintaining sets. i have low enthusiasm and i tend to be very direct about things which makes me appear very dull person to be around with. i feel that i need to fix this, as i notice that i cant keep up with the pace with the people im around with when their being flirtatious.. i tend to be quiet in groups. need advice.

 

[brenbaus]

read the bible, then go out and practice, that is the only advice anyone can give. Find some things you are passionate about other than women and talk to them about those things

 

[Hitman10000]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=68762

 

[rocco]

Find some things you are passionate about other than women and talk to them about those things

that's what im trying not to do. i do that, and it seems to be going nowhere. flirting involves like.. playful banter and sh1t and it lives at the moment. i suck at that. no chick wants to hear about a guy's interest. football, politics, and all that bs takes you further away from your goals of bedding a chick.

anyway, i think im just going to watch the season: sex and the city, episodes. because thats what i was planning to do anyway. if anybody has recommendations of some seduction material, please recommend. just please: do not recommend any david deangolo. lol. im already dull enough, and if i listen to that guy try to give me a long-winded scientific explanation on sex, i think i will just become even more dull.

 

[Krang!]

that's what im trying not to do. i do that, and it seems to be going nowhere. flirting involves like.. playful banter and sh1t and it lives at the moment. i suck at that. no chick wants to hear about a guy's interest. football, politics, and all that bs takes you further away from your goals of bedding a chick.

anyway, i think im just going to watch the season: sex and the city, episodes. because thats what i was planning to do anyway. if anybody has recommendations of some seduction material, please recommend. just please: do not recommend any david deangolo. lol. im already dull enough, and if i listen to that guy try to give me a long-winded scientific explanation on sex, i think i will just become even more dull.

The bible ffs!

Also, David D rocks - but he won make any sense unless you actually go out and try the stuff he teaches. You cant just watch all his stuff and become a grandmaster pickup artist in your apartment - you need to practice, evaluate and learn. His stuff will make sense first when you try it out in the field and make it work for you...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

First you have to understand what flirting is in the first place. It's making someone feel good about themselves while showing an appreciation for them. In order to be a successful flirt, you must first feel that way about yourself.

Think about it.