“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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need advice on flirting

rocco

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help. i suck at flirting and maintaining sets. i have low enthusiasm and i tend to be very direct about things which makes me appear very dull person to be around with. i feel that i need to fix this, as i notice that i cant keep up with the pace with the people im around with when their being flirtatious.. i tend to be quiet in groups. need advice.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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read the bible, then go out and practice, that is the only advice anyone can give. Find some things you are passionate about other than women and talk to them about those things
 

rocco

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brenbaus said:
Find some things you are passionate about other than women and talk to them about those things
that's what im trying not to do. i do that, and it seems to be going nowhere. flirting involves like.. playful banter and sh1t and it lives at the moment. i suck at that. no chick wants to hear about a guy's interest. football, politics, and all that bs takes you further away from your goals of bedding a chick.

anyway, i think im just going to watch the season: sex and the city, episodes. because thats what i was planning to do anyway. if anybody has recommendations of some seduction material, please recommend. just please: do not recommend any david deangolo. lol. im already dull enough, and if i listen to that guy try to give me a long-winded scientific explanation on sex, i think i will just become even more dull.
 

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rocco said:
that's what im trying not to do. i do that, and it seems to be going nowhere. flirting involves like.. playful banter and sh1t and it lives at the moment. i suck at that. no chick wants to hear about a guy's interest. football, politics, and all that bs takes you further away from your goals of bedding a chick.

anyway, i think im just going to watch the season: sex and the city, episodes. because thats what i was planning to do anyway. if anybody has recommendations of some seduction material, please recommend. just please: do not recommend any david deangolo. lol. im already dull enough, and if i listen to that guy try to give me a long-winded scientific explanation on sex, i think i will just become even more dull.
The bible ffs!

Also, David D rocks - but he won make any sense unless you actually go out and try the stuff he teaches. You cant just watch all his stuff and become a grandmaster pickup artist in your apartment - you need to practice, evaluate and learn. His stuff will make sense first when you try it out in the field and make it work for you...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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First you have to understand what flirting is in the first place. It's making someone feel good about themselves while showing an appreciation for them. In order to be a successful flirt, you must first feel that way about yourself.

Think about it.
 
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