"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Need advice on eating/workingout

FiNs2BeCaUgHt

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I'm alittle confused at some things..First of all I have started to lift weights(15 years old)I weigh 170,6 foot. People at my school are already lifting weights.
Should I start lifting heavily now or just lift moderately?All I do is pushups and run. I would do 500 pushups monday-friday, then 1000 saturday and sunday, then skip a week ..so on. I also eat alot, thats what my friends say. Iwould eat around 7-12 meals a day :( Im pretty sure im not fat.My question is, should I start lifting weights alot now or wait until im alittle older?FYI, at my school freshman are lifting 220-290... I lift 245..And also what type of foods should I eat, and one more thing, should i use protien shakes or anything in that general area?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EFFORT

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maybe check the vault
 

xilley

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FiNs2BeCaUgHt said:
FYI, at my school freshman are lifting 220-290... I lift 245
what kind of lifting are you talking about? :eek:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Quagmire911

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Espi makes a very good point.

And you lift 245 at 15? Is this right down to the chest and using free weights? And you haven't done any proper training?

If so, you are a FREAK. (In a good way).
 
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